The Feminine Art of Re-Rooting: Asking the Right Questions to Transform Your Life and Business
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Hey Friends,
Today's manifesto is your guide to re-rooting into your feminine energy through the power of self-inquiry.
Let me start by saying that this practice—this art of re-rooting, of reconnecting to your feminine energy—is the single most transformative thing I’ve done for myself. It’s about coming home, peeling back the layers, and rediscovering the truth that’s been within you all along.
One of the most profound shifts I’ve experienced in this journey is how my self-concept has evolved. It’s like stepping into a new version of myself, one that sees clearer, feels deeper, and moves with more intention.
And it all begins with one simple thing: asking better questions.
Truth-Telling Through Better Questions
The other night, I had one of those “big” moments. You know the ones where you’re caught in a loop, second-guessing your plans and wondering if what you’re doing is enough? I was thinking about marketing my Soft CEO Way program, and I asked myself:
Do you want to believe that what you’re doing right now is enough to reach your goal?
Or do you want to explore other platforms and strategies?
The real question wasn’t about TikTok, Pinterest, or Facebook—it was about trusting myself. Did I believe in the power of what I was already doing? Or was my desire to “do more” coming from a place of fear that I wasn’t enough?
This moment was a catalyst for clarity because it forced me to get to the root of my thoughts and beliefs. This, my friends, is the magic of truth-telling.
Re-root back into your feminine foundation!
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The Feminine Energy of Self-Inquiry
In our fast-paced, hyper-productive world, feminine energy can feel like a forgotten art. But when I think about what feminine energy really means, it’s this:
Reconnecting to your natural rhythms.
Embracing pleasure and presence.
Tuning into your innate wisdom through moments of stillness and reflection.
For me, asking myself powerful questions has been one of the purest forms of feminine energy. Journaling, dancing, savoring quiet moments—these practices have opened a doorway to the deeper truths within me.
And here’s what I’ve realized: All of it is feminine energy.
From the messy process of sitting with uncomfortable truths to the peaceful moments of clarity, it’s all part of rebuilding that connection to yourself.
Why Asking Questions Is Vital for Manifesting
If you’ve ever wondered why you feel stuck in your manifesting journey, it might be because you’re not asking the right questions—or any questions at all.
When you take the time to pause, reflect, and ask yourself what’s really going on, you open the door to self-awareness. You start to see:
What you truly believe.
What thoughts are holding you back.
What emotions are driving your actions.
Manifesting isn’t just about positive thinking. It’s about creating a level of belief that aligns with the feelings and inspired actions needed to call your desires into reality.
And the way you get there? By asking questions that lead you to your truth.
The Practice of Compassionate Truth-Telling
Here’s the thing about self-inquiry: it’s not always pretty.
In the beginning, it can feel messy and uncomfortable. When you start asking yourself, Why am I thinking this way? or What do I want to believe instead? you might uncover some hard truths.
But this is where compassion comes in.
When you meet your thoughts with kindness instead of judgment, you create space for growth. You stop beating yourself up for where you are and start embracing the journey to where you want to be.
My Favorite Questions for Up-Leveling
To help you get started with your own self-inquiry practice, here are some of my go-to questions:
What am I feeling right now, and why?
What do I believe about this situation?
What would I rather believe instead?
What’s more true than the thoughts I’m currently having?
What small step can I take right now that feels aligned with my truth?
Living in Alignment with Feminine Energy
When you practice asking yourself these kinds of questions, you’re not just gaining clarity—you’re deepening your connection to your feminine essence.
You’re stepping into a state of ease, flow, and alignment. You’re creating space for pleasure and peace in your life and business.
And most importantly, you’re building trust in yourself.
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Why This Matters for Your Life and Business
If you’re anything like me, you want to build a life and business that feels good, not one that drains your energy. And I’m here to tell you: it’s possible.
By leaning into your feminine energy and asking better questions, you can:
Make decisions from a place of alignment, not fear.
Trust in your ability to manifest your desires.
Experience more peace, clarity, and pleasure in your daily life.
This isn’t about doing more or being “perfect.” It’s about tuning into yourself and creating from a place of truth.
Final Thoughts
Asking better questions is a practice, one that takes time and patience. But the more you do it, the more you’ll see the power it holds to transform your self-concept, your business, and your entire life.
So, I invite you to start today. Grab a journal, find a quiet space, and ask yourself:
What do I want to believe?
Because the answers, my friend, are already within you. Comment below. Let me know what came up for you from this manifesto.